20 Things a Mother Should Tell Her Son

5. Leadership isn’t about fitting in

Real leaders always distinguish themselves from the herd in some way. Don’t be afraid to be different. Always speak what is true in your heart.

6. Discover what it means to you to be a man

Be true to yourself, no matter where it leads you, even if you worry you are outside your traditional gender role. You can feel secure in your gender no matter what your interests are. Your gender identity and your interests are up to you to decide, not somebody else.